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sluttyten · 2 years ago

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Romantic/dating anxiety is definitely a thing (to me). I just steed into the dating world for the first time last year at the ripe age of 26 and when I tell you I’ve been anxious every time I’ve matched with someone/received a message complimenting me before we can even have a conversation/agreed to a date… it’s intense to say the least but I believe in us!

Definitely definitely a thing, like I’ve managed to give myself a decent stomachache just by overthinking this since it happened.

I don’t know what to do lmao because I have 0 experience, and like I just texted my best friend about, I shoot down every person that ever asks for my number or shows interest in me but then I also literally am always like…. looking for someone to be interested in me, but also like as soon as I know for sure they’re interested I don’t want them to be, and also I think I just feel awkward if the person is younger than me, so like when one of my coworkers clearly had a crush on me but he was like 5 or 6 years younger than me so I felt that was weird, and then this guy I don’t even know how old he is either so like that feels fucking awkward to me because nobody ever thinks I am my age, which right now I’m 27 😭 and the other day a girl I work with thought I was 23, which is a compliment but also like I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone that much younger than me 😭😭

#asks #I definitely have social anxiety to some extent though #like literally even the idea of going and hanging out with my best friend half the time I want to cancel and we’ve known each other for #like 12 years by this point if not actually 13 years #and then there’s my friends I’ve actually made at work I always get nervous to hang out with them even tho I see them all the time at work #and I genuinely like them as people #but I don’t fucking know 😭😭 I don’t know what I want and I’ve tied myself into a ball of anxiety so I just want to go home and shower and #curl up in bed except that I also had kinda made plans with my mom to go to target today #ALSO though like if I do respond and if this guy does ask me out on a date this week would be a good time #because since I live at home and since my parents (specifically my mom) are kinda overprotective and since I’ve never been into dating I #feel like they’ll ask me a million questions if I mention a guy or going on a date with a guy #and they’re gonna be gone this week so if I was to go out it would be the perfect chance to go without having to answer questions #but honestly 😂😂 that makes me nervous too #I need to text him back because since he’s a regular and since I work regular hours he’s probably got a general idea of the hours I work #which is also mildly weird to me #I overthink everything btw #I’m stressed 😭😭

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theythemmer · 4 months ago

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am i really a clique artist if i haven’t draw THE pic of tyler

#THIS IS A JOKE BTW #DRAWING THIS PIC ISNT A QUANTIFIER OF IF UR A CLIQUEARTIST OR NOT #imho i’m an artist who does clique art i’m nowhere near Enough to be A Cliqueartist #this is just a funny haha #maybe i’m overthinking idk i had An OCD Incident this morning so am a bit frazzled #anyway meant i could hyperfocus and finish this tho so not all bad haha!#everything’s fine #oh i need to shut up #art2 and craft2 #clique art #tyler joseph #twenty one pilots #tøp #blurryface

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mintypsii · 11 months ago

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i wonder how zeff would've reacted to sanji's bounty poster changing to "only alive" and then later to sanji "vinsmoke" (well known former conquerors/royalty of the north blue)

whether sanji's told zeff about germa or not, zeff would be stressed OUT

#op #one piece #sanji #zeff #red leg zeff #vinsmoke sanji #black leg sanji #SHUT UP yeah yeah i copy pasted this from my twt DIE #idk i like to assume sanji never told him #because he'd be scared that word would get out and he'd be sent back #or like #zeff would kick him out #EVEN WORSE: sanji paranoid that zeff would kick him out because he agrees with why judge didn't want him 😭😭#like that's 100% ooc for zeff to do but sanji is an overthinking paranoid traumatized little guy #mind you this is the same guy who thought luffy+the strawhats would be better off without him despite everything #not /neg btw i understand sanji he's just like me fr #ok but IF sanji DID tell zeff about germa ZEFF WOULD BE SOOO WORRIED #LLIKE. WHAT DO THEY WANT WITH MY SON???? hoping sanji's still safe but knowing that SOMETHING to do with his family definitely happened #germa 66 #min watches one piece

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ganondoodle · 13 days ago

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okay, i know im really bad at answering asks (shame on me! shame on me!)

but .....since its what im currently able to focus on; are there any questions about my OCs you'd like to ask? (the more precise the better, the vaguer the more i would just ramble out their entire history out of context or not know how to answer) i know i havent drawn alot of them, maybe it could get me to (re)design some even ... but i still wanted to put this out there o-o

#ganondoodles talks #personal #i suppose #i have NOT abandoned destiny btw #still chipping away at it trying depserately to stop spending hours on every single panel lmao #anyway- im always so nervous about anythign of my original work bc im so afraid of being made fun of #im so easily spooked everything gets to me #like that whole “the authors barely disguised fetish” meme thing has made me overthink every single design and story/lore decision #bc i keep wondering OMG what if that is something weird and i just dont know but everyone else is gonna pick up on it immediately #of course im trying to fight that and have done so .. somewhat successfully given those big lore ramble posts are still up #...anyway im tired up too late and sleep deprived #always the best time to post ramblings lol

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oceanwithouthermoon · 2 months ago

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with love as a veteran saiki k fan, a lot of the behavior ur describing in ur recent joke is just very characteristic of this particular fandom, hence why i’ve distanced myself from it. everyone in the fanbase is miserable and insane and playing weird fan politics and toxic and it seems to be a culture that unfortunately is self perpetuatingly drawing in more and more people like that.

yea this is kinda why ive been using the block button so much more liberally lately 😖 i dont agree that its just this fandom but it's definitely a thing that's pretty exclusive to smaller fandoms because it just gets so.... cliquey. ive seen it happen with ship communities for rare pairs because theres so little people in them that everyone takes everything personally and thinks its about specifically them 😭

#i used to be mutuals with people who were like this and they would overthink literally everything and make it about them somehow #like if someone says they dont like a hc? they posted it about me because i mentioned it once.#someone says they dont like a ship? they posted it literally to spite me because i like it.#if someone doesnt like a character???? theyre being fucking so mean to me specifically cuz its my favorite character #im the victim and everyone hates me and is after me btw!!!!!1!1!!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!!!!#like 😭 ?#and every anon they would get they would try to figure out who in the fandom it is #blocking was considered a personal attack #meows post

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stuckinapril · 9 months ago

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Not to be the local clutching my crystals vibrational energy subliminals girl. But meditation does WONDERS everyone w a brain that’s all over the place like mine should try it

#Committing as little as 10 minutes to focusing on breathing will help u so much. I promise u. I promise #And I don’t believe in spiritual stuff either but meditation just helps me slow myself down when I’m spiraling #Or overthinking or multitasking and trying to do everything at once #If you’re restless / an overthinker / have to keep ur hands busy like me this will help u slow down #Btw ik meditation isn’t linked to spirituality but I do know that’s a popular hybrid genre I guess #I’m just into meditation to calm tf down #p

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lesbians4buckleys · 3 months ago

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okay i've been neglecting tumblr for the past few days because i've been busy preparing for university, but i had a question,

how many of y'all fuck with 911 ocs? do we like ocs? do we want to see content of ocs? because i have a 911 oc that i'd love to share but i'm not sure if anyone would actually be interested so. if you are then let me know!! thank u.

#911 abc #the 118 #911 show #911 oc #original character #ocs #they're both a 911 oc and a cowboy oc btw #originally a cowboy oc but i fit them into the 911 universe #but idk if people will think it is CRINGE to share my 911 oc #i mean i know barely anyone will think that but still #i overthink everything #also i'll try to put out more 911 cowboy content soon i'm just real busy at the moment #adulthood sucks

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faithfromanewperspective · 2 months ago

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see the thing is, in my family I don’t think I was ever given the option to be anxious. I don’t think I ever had a chance to feel it even if (and when) I was when from a young age I had to learn to be strong for a bunch of adults terrified of the world around them—too caught up in their own dysregulation to ever walk me through mine, I instead took praise for being ‘tough’ and ‘chill’ and in some ways I am, I learned from a young age what things I don’t want to let restrict my life and I learned to do things even while scared. but I never learned how to acknowledge that feeling at let someone tell me it’ll be okay. not when I built my whole self on being the person to tell others (rightly) it would be okay—all the while learning the only person who’s perception I can trust is my own.

#this is not to say I’m not anxious btw #just for a long time if you’d have suggested it to me I’d be like. what #personal mental health tag #anxiety #generational trauma #also ftr this post was inspired by seeing someone say something relatable about being anxious; overthinking etc #and me being like is that me oh wait it is does that mean #anyway here we are. I feel a constant sense of dread about everything around meand carry guilt I can’t fix the world for everyone

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webvampzz · 4 months ago

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do u ever overthink the tiniest shit like changing ur pfp

#like everytime i wanna change my user or pfp i overthink it bc like what if it feels like im targeting something or someone #when its not #or i cant repost anything because then it feels wrong or cringe #like everything i do has a deep set guilt and cringe to it no matter what #Please ignore this btw im just like saying #just a funny vent or rant #but forget that i vented

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honeysulani · 1 year ago

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You know what's been on my mind? I've deleted all my newer bg3 posts on this blog. Then created a second blog to post other games on there. The reason? Some hateful anon messages I know I shouldn't care about but it's still been on my mind. If you're only here for sims content that's totall fine!! But please don't send me hateful messages that everything besides the sims is annoying you. You can always unfollow or block certain tags.

That's my blog and I'm gonna post whatever I like and brings me joy. It's about having fun and sharing gameplay, I don't want to force myself to push out certain content because people tell me to do so.

#I feel kinda dumb that i've listened to these messages and even moved my other content #but after overthinking everything as usual #i've decided to delete my second blog and post everything I want on here #I don't know why these messages were such a big deal for me #anyways I still have some bg3 gameplay to post #also this is was brought me into bg3 #lovely simblr suddenly posting bg3 content all over my dash when it was out #I loooved it that's why I decided to buy it!!#thank you for that btw!#great now I've deleted all my precious callyx posts on here ;-;

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lepetitfruit · 7 months ago

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I am not generally one to post reels but. This one grabs me by the face every time

#im a huge overthinker and idk this just so effectively puts everything in perspective for me #i gott play the cards. try my hand at the game. learn the rules. what else is there to to #this is for everything btw not just relationships #petit talks #Instagram

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e77y · 8 months ago

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When everything is scary, you (read: I) just have to remember that you literally also felt like this yesterday and the day before and the day before and the day before and the day before and the day before and the day before and the day before and literally nothing happened any of the times; you just worry about nothing a lot and that’s like. Fine

#well it’s not fine #but it’s not my fault I guess #sometimes it is #idk #I guess I’m responsible for my own thoughts 😭#just trying to reassure myself and instead I ended up overthinking more LMAOOO #this whole post is very light-hearted btw. everything is fine I’m just a worrywart #I love that word… worrywart #wackyposting

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monstrsball · 1 year ago

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hi Kennedy!!! rouge+pumpkin+mint+babybel wrapper+mossy moss (of the iwaoisuga variety >:3c )

HEHEHE. iwaoisuga is not a crime it is simply canon (incorrect). i’m glad you follow for the iwaoisuga updates, i am soooo unnormal about them. the lore in my beautiful mind palace is constantly expanding.